Whispers
This is the beginning of a regular series of posts – similar to Monday Musings in that I hope it will be weekly or bi-weekly, and I really hope that this is one place where all of you quiet readers will speak up! If we speak up anywhere in our online communities, this should be a topic we speak up on!
So, what is “Whispers”? If asked, I could tell you a lot of ways in my life that God blesses me. I would start with my husband and my children and would continue with the blessings of our church, the staff we work with there, their wives, my friendships, our families, and go on and on. Those are huge blessings that I’m thankful for.
BUT what about the “little” daily blessings – the ones where you have a “small” moment in your day where you got something you really needed like a nap or a special quiet time or a phone call you needed? Moments where you pause and recognize that this moment is a sweet, sweet pause in the hustle and bustle of our normal days. A time when someone helps you when you were in distress or God specifically answered a prayer – a “little” one. These are some of the sweetest moments in our lives and our faith. I like to think of them as WHISPER reminders from the Lord. Whispers to remind me that He loves me so much and wants my best. Oh, sometimes a whisper from the Lord speaks more love to me than the big moments!
I think so many times when we talk to each other (or blog and comment), we stay on the surface – what purses we like, fun things to do around town, funny stories from our day. I love those moments obviously! I love that blogging offers the opportunity to make new friends and share little moments from our days. I find out thngs about each of you by reading your blogs or comments that I wouldn’t get to find out normally only because I don’t have the time (unfortunately) to just come hang out at your house or talk on the phone with you to find out. I love knowing what weird people you saw at the gym, the funny thing your kid said, a great shopping deal you got, or a horrible day gone worse! Isn’t that why we blog – reading and writing both?
I’ve been convicted recently that my regular conversations with friends should go deeper though. I want to do better about asking my friends what God is doing in their lives and how I can pray for them in addition to knowing what their vacation was like. I want us to be able to share that online as well. There are lots of times that something sweet happens during the day that I know is of the Lord, and we should share those moments! Plus, I’m hoping that a regular posting will make me and you more aware of those moments!
There is no specific requirement as to your moment except that it be one where you recognize as the Lord loving on you. For example, my friend Audrey had a day where it was pouring down rain, she was heading to the car after shopping, her boys were not cooperating, and someone came to help her to the car. That was a whisper! Or my friend Jennifer prayed at church for God to show her someone that night she needed to have lunch with and God did! A whisper! It could be a sweet moment in a quiet time, an aha moment in a Bible study, a revelation of something you need to work on, a sweet word of encouragement from a friend, a quiet moment during nap time, ANYTHING from the Lord! Maybe we’ll be more diligent about praying for those little things too! How cool to get to testify to what the Lord is doing in our lives as well as read what He’s doing in others!
So start thinking and get ready to share! How has God whispered to you this week?? I’ll post mine on the comments as well – and, as you go through your week, if you think of something to add, go back and add it!
Okay, one whisper for this week would be at our Tuesday night Bible study. We were talking about parenting, and I was overwhelmed with fear about our next stage ahead with Katie Beth entering school and the responsibility of guiding her spiritual heart. Like my chest literally hurt. But, at the end we got a sweet time of prayer with a partner, and I “happened” to be matched up with a wise, godly mother of four! It was a blessing to have her pray over me. The Lord whispered and reminded me that He is far more concerned than I am about my children’s spiritual well-being. I have to do my best to seek His guidance, but He is ultimately in control of their parenting!
The fear disappeared and I have my topic for my next season of quiet times and personal study!
Love, Igoogle, just read this post and what a great idea. I feel like a lot of times we miss the whispers or just chaulk them up to conincedance. Way to challenge us to keep our focus on what little things God is teaching and showing us!
Oh, one more. The kids have loved playing with the motorized cars at people’s houses – the mini car where you push the gas and it goes? But, the prices were atrocious! I looked on Craigslist and Ebay and local yard sales for a bargain with no luck. I found a few princess pink ones but didn’t want that with two boys! But, last week, a friend out of the blue that I hadn’t mentioned this to told me she had something for me since they were moving – a fire truck motorized car! How cool is that?
God has calmed my fears today about a school decision with Gavin. So hard to find qualified teachers for him at every stage (orientation and mobility, cane use, braille, etc…). His teachers this year were phenomenal, but he’s ready to move on. I spent the last hour on the phone with a woman (blind since birth) who is the President of the National Federation of the Blind Nashville Chapter. She gave me so much information and I now feel more able to make educated decisions on his behalf. I was worried because Gavin’s IEP is Monday!!! God quieted my fears just in time and gave me a wonderful resource to stay in touch with.
By the way, I love this idea for a regular post because it gives us a chance to praise and acknowledge God in so many small ways. What a great idea!
Hey Sarah. We only met a short while ago, but I check in on your blog every once in a while. I love this post. Love the challenge that it presents. God does “whisper” His loving kindness to us often.
Just this week, He reminded me that HE alone is my treasure. How I have missed this truth time and time again. And yet it seems so foundational to our Faith. When my focus is elsewhere, my life seems off course. But because of His loving kindness, He brings me closer and shows me more of Himself….and I fall in love all over again!
Great idea! One of my favorite posts by anyone ever! And it made me tear up again thinking about that “whisper” in the Publix parking lot.
Guilt in motherhood can be so hard. I’ve talked with Julie W about this because I remember her mentioning it in MOPS one time (last year). She has two that are closer in age than even mine and I just remember her mentioning something about the guilt the enemy puts on us. It’s so true! Like she told me, it’s different if we’re being plain lazy but I don’t think that’s the case for most of us moms. I feel so many days I’m so worn out from just doing “life” with my two boys. Then I go to bed thinking “Did I praise them enough? Did I raise my voice too much? Was I on the computer too much? Should I have turned the t.v. off? Did I pray over them today? Did we talk about our scripture?”
Then last night I was putting my oldest into bed and everytime we finished reading his Bible, he would say “More Jesus, Mommy! More Jesus!” (tears). Even though he started milking it after about 4 times, knowing it was his way of keeping me in the room, it was really hard for me to finally leave because I always want my boys begging for “More Jesus!” It was very rewarding just to hear him say that and knowing the Lord rebuked the schemer that evening because this mama went to bed with no guilt.
I linked to this on Gavin’s blog today, Sarah. LOVED it that much.
I was having a horrible day Tuesday- just one of those days where you feel like maybe you should have stayed in bed. I called a friend to talk and her mom answered, she happened to be over at her house watching her kids. She has always been like a second mom to me and she just loved on me through her words- I know she didn’t realize how much I needed that at that moment but the Lord did.
I love this new post and glad it will be weekly. I know for me, I can lose sight of the little “whispers” so easily.
Wow! I love reading everyone’s whispers!
Chad’s been busier than normal, and so has our other commitments leaving me to keep up with “everything else.” Which is fine, really, but I was so tired and grouchy to my husband. And the way Chad replied to my complaints were so sweet and amazing. That was Monday, and God used that conversation on a Monday afternoon to give me the strength to “keep up” (sort of) this week. It was just what I needed.
I just had to share a whisper that my husband shared with me. We spent Sat. planting grass- with seeds. (too cheap to buy sod). Anway, he was watering and watching the sprinklers last night and prayed for a nice rain shower. Then Chad got wet, the wind blew the water from the sprinkler on him! He laughed and thanked God for the little reminder!